Son of Rabbi Arthur Gross-Schaefer Killed in Rhode Island Accident

Alleged drunken driver strikes, kills Brown University freshman Avi Schaefer

By | Published on 02.12.2010

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The son of a well-known Santa Barbara rabbi was killed early Friday after being struck by an alleged drunken driver in Providence, R.I.

Avi Schaefer, 21, son of Rabbi Arthur Gross-Schaefer and his wife, Laurie, was a freshman at Brown University. Gross-Schaefer leads Community Shul of Montecito and Santa Barbara.

The driver of an SUV has been charged with felony drunken-driving charges for hitting Schaefer and his girlfriend as the couple walked along the street just before 2 a.m. Friday, according to the Providence Journal. Daniel Gilcreast, 23, of North Providence, R.I., was charged with driving under the influence with death resulting and driving under the influence causing serious bodily injury.

Police say Gilcreast, who was not injured in the crash, refused to take an alcohol test at the scene. Police used a new state law to obtain a warrant to have his blood drawn to determine whether he was impaired.

Schaefer’s girlfriend, Marika Baltscheffsky, 19, a Brown exchange student from Sweden, was treated for serious injuries but was later released from a local hospital.

“Avi was an extraordinary and gifted young man, with enormous promise. His death is a devastating loss for his family, his friends, and our entire community,” Michael Rassler, executive director of the Jewish Federation of Greater Santa Barbara, said in a statement Friday.

In a statement, Brown president Ruth Simmons described Schaefer as “a young man of inordinate strength and integrity.” She said he had quickly distinguished himself as a student leader who recently organized a campus-wide relief effort for victims of the earthquake in Haiti.

Prior to enrolling at Brown, Schaefer served three years in the Israel Defense Forces, becoming a counter-terrorism instructor and working with special units in both the Israeli and U.S. militaries. He had expressed an interest in joining the Providence (R.I.) Police Department’s SWAT unit and had participated in several training exercises with the squad, the Providence Journal reported.

In addition to his parents, Schaefer is survived by his brothers, Elisha, Yoav and Noah, and grandparents Sylvia and Jesse Gross.

Services will be held at 11 a.m. Monday at Stephen S. Wise Temple, 15500 Stephen S. Wise Drive, Los Angeles 90077. Bus transportation will be available from Santa Barbara, departing at 8:30 a.m. Monday from Congregation B’nai B’rith, 1000 San Antonio Creek Road, and arriving back in Santa Barbara at about 5 p.m. after the burial at Mount Sinai Memorial Parks & Mortuary. The fee for the bus is $20 per person. RSVP to .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) by noon Sunday.

Friends have established a Facebook page, RIP Avi Schaefer, to share their memories and condolences.

Noozhawk staff writer Lara Cooper can be reached at .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address).

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» on 02.12.10 @ 05:37 PM

Dear Avi,

Your influence will always be felt in our lives. From the first moment we met, you made it clear that you were going to make your dreams a reality. You refused to give up when faced with hardships and most of all you always put your heart into helping others. You believed that peace can be achieved and fought hard to promote mutual understanding and respect. Your heroic and gallant actions say more about you than any words can express. You have inspired us to believe that with hard work and a vision this world can one day be a beautiful place. Thank you for being a part of our lives and for shaping us into the people we are today.

We love you and you are always in our heart and thoughts.

Your family in Israel.


» on 02.12.10 @ 09:39 PM

Ari will be remembered always.  Services are Monday, Feb. 15, at Stephen Wise Temple, Mulholland Drive at the 405 Freeway at 11 a.m.


» on 02.12.10 @ 10:50 PM

Our family is so very devistated and broken hearted for. The Rabbi Gross-Schaefer family.And we grieve with them at this extremely hard, depths of despair moment in time.The awful news about the tragic death of their beloved, beautiful young son Avi is a very,very difficult senseless tragedy. Avi’s life has touched so many people as a young man of God.And his death has brought extreme sadness to all that loved him.
May He rest in Eternal Glory with His creator and enjoy the beauty and presence of the Most High God in peace.
 
Love,
Victoria,Bruce,
Ashlyn & Harrison
Algra


» on 02.12.10 @ 11:49 PM

I don’t know this young man or his family, but I have been so touched and saddened by this news. My heart hurts so badly for the loss of this wonderful young soul.
Baruch Hashem


» on 02.13.10 @ 06:30 AM

My prayers are with Rabbi Arthur Gross-Schaefer and his family in this time of great sorrow.


» on 02.13.10 @ 09:25 AM

dear laurie and arthur, i simply send my love and condolences, gloria


» on 02.13.10 @ 10:34 AM

Dear Arthur and family,

My heart and condolences go out to you.  Arthur, if your son is anything like you, which I’m sure he was, he must have been a wonderful man.  Life is often tragic and mysterious.  For someone like you—-who have brought so much humanity and compassion to so many others, to suffer this—-I am just at a loss of the ways of life.  I wish I knew the words to soften the pain—-all I can offer you is my prayers and thoughts.

Your friend, Ken Williams


» on 02.13.10 @ 10:38 AM

My heart goes out to the Schaefer family and the entire Community Shul and B’nai B’rith communities for this tragic loss.


» on 02.13.10 @ 01:53 PM

My heart goes out to the Schaefer family and the entire Community Shul and B’nai B’rith communities for this tragic loss.


» on 02.15.10 @ 04:43 PM

The Islamic Society of Santa Barbara and I send our most heartfelt condolences to Rabbi Arthur and Laurie Gross-Schaefer.  We grieve with you at the loss of your beloved son.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.


» on 02.15.10 @ 07:16 PM

May G-d comfort the family and friends among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem on the passing of a special soul, Avi of blessed memory.
Menachem Kovacs Baltimore


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