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Hanne Maria Sonquist, 1931-2009
Hanne Sonquist, extraordinary wife, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, friend, mentor, and active advocate for enhancing the lives of young children, died peacefully surrounded by her loving family on May 31, 2009, following a 10-year struggle with lymphoma.
Hanne was born in Vienna, Austria, to Doctors Ella and Joseph Deutsch on September 28, 1931. Her family immigrated to Chicago in the summer of 1938. Hanne and John Sonquist met through the Chicago Circle Pines Co-op Youth Programs. Both attended the University of Chicago and were married in 1950.
In 1959, they moved to Ann Arbor, Michigan, as John began working at the University of Michigan. Between 1954 and 1961, Hanne and John added three children (Eric, Catherine and Kristin) and in the mid-1960s, she returned to school, completing a master’s degree in Education with a focus in her graduate work on Early Childhood Development.
They moved to Santa Barbara in 1970 with Hanne joining UCSB’s Graduate School of Education (now known as the Gevirtz School), where she helped develop the Early Childhood Education curriculum and helped found Santa Barbara’s Centro Familiar State Preschool while serving as an instructor for both UCSB and SBCC. In 1974 she joined the faculty at SBCC and began a 23-year tenure as director of the Starr King Parent-Child Workshop.
With more than 25 years experience working with pre-school children and parents, she became certified as a marriage and family therapist in 1980 and continued her private practice until this year.
Hanne loved music, art, dancing and skating. She sang alto in the Santa Barbara Choral Society for many years. She enjoyed sharing her musical interests, and hosted an annual Christmas “Family Sing” at her house every year. She had many longtime close friends, and shared her life with her women’s group for more than 35 years.
She was a dedicated member of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) for more than 60 years and an active member of the Santa Barbara Society of Friends for more than 25 years, serving as chairwoman of the Ministry and Counsel Committee, and once as co-clerk. Her concern for peace and justice lasted over her entire life, including her participation in Women Strike for Peace, back in the 1960s, and attendance at several of the large peace and civil rights marches in Washington and New York at that time.
Children were Hanne’s favorites, and the nurturing environment she sought to create at the Starr King Parent Workshop was one of her greatest achievements. It wasn’t just an environment for children, but a place where people with young children could learn how to be good parents. Over the past three decades many of those parents have gone on themselves to become advocates for children. This is another one of her legacies to the Santa Barbara community.
An active member of our community, Hanne has served as a volunteer for many organizations including New Beginnings Counseling Center, Storyteller Center, CALM, PEP and children centers throughout Santa Barbara County. She has served on the governing boards of the National, California and Tri-Counties Associations for the Education of Young Children. She has also served as chairwoman of the Santa Barbara County Human Services Commission and as a member of the county’s First 5 Santa Barbara County.
Honors include receiving the first Santa Barbara Children’s Commission “Child Friendly” award, 1994 Santa Barbara Independent “Local Hero” award, 1997 SB-AEYC “Stand for Children” award, 1999 Santa Barbara County Human Services Commission “Volunteer of the Year” award, 2000 Rotary Club of Santa Barbara “Paul Harris Fellow award, 2000 2nd Supervisorial District’s ”Woman of the Year” award, 2006 Santa Barbara Democratic Women’s Club “Woman of the Year” award, and the 2007 New Beginnings “Recognition of Outstanding Contribution”.
Her feelings about life are illustrated by poet Mary Oliver, whom she loved:
“... When it’s over, I don’t want to wonder
if I have made of my life something particular, and real.
I don’t want to find myself sighing and frightened,
or full of argument.
I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.”
She was, indeed, an active participant, not a visitor.
Hanne is survived by her husband of 58 years, John Sonquist; her son, Eric Sonquist, of Santa Barbara (Anita), daughters Catherine Sonquist Forest of Santa Cruz (Will) and Kristin Sonquist Firrell of Woodland Hills (Graham); grandchildren Zoe, Jessica, Kelsey, Scarlett and Owen; her brother, Steven Deutsch of Eugene, Oregon (Beth); and many nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the American Friends Service Committee, Starr King Parent-Child Workshop, and Visiting Nurse & Hospice Care of Santa Barbara.
Please join us at 2 p.m. Sunday, June 21, 2009, at the UCSB Faculty Club lawn for a Community Celebration of the Life of Hanne Sonquist.
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» on 06.07.09 @ 01:32 PM
Quite a lady. She is long appreciated, and already missed. R.I.P.
» on 06.07.09 @ 06:10 PM
What a loss. She was a wonderful, wonderful woman.
» on 06.08.09 @ 06:34 AM
I think about her every day. She was and is a great influence on my life. I will miss her.
» on 06.08.09 @ 07:18 PM
Starr King was one of those once in a lifetime experiences for both children and parents. I’m proud that my two children Erin and Andrew were able to thrive in that environment. The world is a better place because of Hanne and she will be deeply missed.
» on 06.10.09 @ 05:49 PM
My family and I will always remember Hanne with love and gratitude. Aside from being a friend to children, she was always there, in the thick of worthy causes. I’ve walked alongside her in more than one peace march, and although it worried me at the time, I smile now when I remember her trudging up State Street, carrying an enormous and very heavy American flag, even though she wasn’t well. Hanne taught so many of us what matters and she’s one of my heroes.
Here’s the message our son Nick wanted me to pass on to the Sonquist family:
I want to tell Hanne’s family how sorry I am for their loss. It is my loss too. I was three years old when I met Hanne at Star King. She was my first teacher. Although I am now turning thirty and can remember almost nothing else from all those years ago, I will always remember her. There are people that we meet in life whose essential goodness is so apparent, so easily seeable, that they are trusted and loved instantly by those they meet. For me and hundreds of children like me, Hanne was one of those people, I want her family to know that I and my classmates will always remember her.
Sincerely,
Nick Stewart-Oaten
» on 06.24.09 @ 10:22 AM
I was so sorry to hear of Hanne’s death. I have only good thoughts of Hanne. I once wrote her a letter which for some reason I never did send and still have, but it was thanking her for all she has done for our family and others. I was at her Starr King retirement party years ago and was struck by the palpable connection within the room of all the different people she had touched within the community. My thoughts and prayers are with her family as they cope with their loss.
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