Wikipedia defines a pet peeve (or pet hate) as “a minor annoyance that an individual identifies as particularly annoying to them, to a greater degree than others may find it. ... Its first usage was around 1919. The term is a back-formation from the 14th-century word peevish, meaning ‘ornery or ill-tempered.’
“Pet peeves often involve specific behaviors of someone close, such as a spouse or significant other. These behaviors may involve disrespect, manners, personal hygiene, relationships and family issues. ... A key aspect of a pet peeve is that it may well seem acceptable to others. For example, a supervisor may have a pet peeve about people leaving the lid on the copier up and react angrily, be annoyed when others interrupt when speaking, or by messy desks of their subordinates. That same supervisor may witness employees coming into work late, and not feel any annoyance whatsoever.”
Following is a partial list of the many annoyances that are some of my “pet peeves,” along with those of others:
» Government employees: Government employees who retire at an early age, often in their 50s, and receive pensions that are greater than the retirement income of most people who worked in private industry. It’s particularly offensive to me when they are interviewed and complain about how unfairly they are treated and how much they deserve. After years of being employed by the taxpayers, their retirement continues to be supported by taxpayer funds. Most of the retired people I know do not have a government pension and must live on the income from the savings they accumulated during their working years, along with whatever Social Security income they may receive.
» Government intrusion into our lives: The never-ending growth of government rules and regulations, which is exemplified by President Barack Obama’s health-care law, comprised of more than 900 pages of government mandates, which was concocted by a select committee in secret and approved by a complaint legislature, most of whom had not read it.
» Phony politicians: I don’t know anyone who is not fed up with the posturing of politicians and the promises they make, which everyone knows they have no intention of keeping. I’ve reached the point where I no longer watch them when they are interviewed on various TV news or talk shows.
» Telephone solicitors: Especially from Pakistan. They always seem to call at the most inconvenient time, in the middle of dinner or while you’re watching one of your favorite TV shows and, invariably, you can’t understand a word they are saying.
» TV advertising: Advertising of TV shows is often very offensive, stressing sex and outrageous behavior. I often wonder about the audience they are attempting to attract.
» The media: The slanted coverage and political bias that have become the hallmark of our news media, under the guise of being impartial but which, in fact, generally advocates the “liberal” point of view.
Following are some of the pet peeves of others, many of whom who are (or were) well-known:
» Anger: “Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools” — Hebrew Bible, Ecclesiastes 7:9.
“Rage cannot be hidden, it can only be dissembled. This dissembling deludes the thoughtless, and strengthens rage and adds, to rage, contempt” — James Baldwin (1924-87), U.S. author; “Stranger in the Village,” in Harper’s (New York, October 1953), reprinted in Notes of a Native Son, 1955.
» Complaint: “What annoyances are more painful than those of which we cannot complain?” — Marquis de Custine (1790-1857), French traveler, author; Empire of the Czar: A Journey Through Eternal Russia, chapter 7 (1843; rev. 1989).
“What annoyances are more painful than those of which we cannot complain?” — Marquis de Custine (1790–1857), French traveler, author. Empire of the Czar: A Journey Through Eternal Russia, ch. 7 (1843; rev. 1989).
“Your damned nonsense can I stand twice or once, but sometimes always, by God, never” — Hans Richter (1843-1916), German conductor; quoted in: Leon Harris, The Fine Art of Political Wit, chapter 12 (1964), to the second flute in the Covent Garden orchestra, quoted by British MP J.E.S. Simon in the House of Commons, Feb. 13, 1958.
» Self-control: “When angry, count four; when very angry, swear” — Mark Twain (1835-1910), U.S. author; Pudd’nhead Wilson, chapter 10, “Pudd’nhead Wilson’s Calendar” (1894).
» Temper: “Many people lose their tempers merely from seeing you keep yours” — Frank Moore Colby (1865-1925), U.S. editor, essayist; The Colby Essays, volume 1, “Trials of an Encyclopedist” (1926).
— Harris R. Sherline is a retired CPA and former chairman and CEO of Santa Ynez Valley Hospital who as lived in Santa Barbara County for more than 30 years. He stays active writing opinion columns and his blog, Opinionfest.com.