In years past, it was customary for couples to have multiple registries before getting married — but times have changed.
Nowadays, more couples are choosing to live together and have their own households before tying the knot. As a result, the problem they face is not a lack of items but rather too many.Â
Newlyweds may also reside in smaller spaces compared to couples in the past, and they simply do not require many traditional registry items — in particular extensive sets of fine china or silverware.
Environmentally conscious couples may also choose to forgo a registry altogether to reduce waste and keep items out of landfills. Regardless of their individual motivations, more couples are deciding that traditional registries aren’t always necessary.
Charity Donations
One trendy option is to request that your guests donate to a charitable organization. You can give them the freedom to select a charity that they personally endorse, or you can suggest a few options that hold significance for you. Try not to limit yourself to just one charity, however, since your guests might have their own favorite nonprofit. Allowing friends and family to choose where the donation goes can give them a feeling of empowerment.
Honeymoon Fund
Some engaged couples are deciding to establish a honeymoon fund where guests can contribute money. Numerous websites are available to assist in setting it all up. You may also choose to finance the honeymoon yourselves and request guests to gift you with experiences during your trip, such as a wildlife excursion or a dinner at a restaurant.
No Registry
To avoid receiving any gifts, ask parents and members of the bridal party to inform everyone that gifts are not necessary. It is important to include this message in all wedding stationery and communications. Be advised, however, that some guests may bring gifts, anyway. So go ahead and order thank you cards to express your gratitude.
Cold Hard Cash
Other couples may opt for monetary gifts instead — and that’s become perfectly acceptable. Provide a brief about what you’re saving for, whether it’s a new house or to start a family, so that guests can feel like they’re a part of your journey. As with honeymoon registries, there are now online platforms available to guide you in creating a cash registry.