Kay Allen Holmes was born April 11, 1933, in Arroyo Grande. He died Sept. 19, 2025, in Santa Barbara at the age of 92.
Kay was married to Wanda on Feb, 14, 1953, and celebrated 72 years together.
Kay was preceded in death by his daughter, Karen Lee Holmes. He has left behind his wife, Wanda; daughter Jennie Briner (Dick); sons John Holmes (Sheila) and Floyd Holmes; along with multiple grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Kay graduated from Oklahoma State University with a degree in fire protection. While in school, he was approached by an insurance company to be their fire specialist, and then they moved to the Midwest.
From there, Kay went on to bigger and better jobs, ending up in Santa Barbara to work with Joe Bohnett at Pueblo Insurance, and ultimately owning his own business with his son, John. The business was called Holmes & Holmes Insurance.
Kay was also a proud veteran of the U.S. Army, fighting for our country in the Korean War. He leaves a legacy of being a part of many organizations, such as Jaycees, Rotary, Elks Club, DB club, and many more.
He volunteered with YFL, the Santa Barbara County Parole Commission, Santa Barbara Fiesta, and many more.
Kay was very much a part of his family’s lives. Not only did he attend his kids, but grandkids’ performances, games and events, and he would also attend their friends’ events and games.
He was truly a family man, and his kids and grandkids’ biggest supporter in all areas of their lives.
While staying in Villa Alamar during his last days, everyone loved Kay. He was the only one who said thank you continuously. This not only shows his outpouring love, but also the kindness that makes up his character.
Kay was not only known for being a man’s man, he was also known to be loving, kind, humorous, generous, and the one thing that mattered the most to him was his integrity. His word was his word.
The burial service was held at the Arroyo Grande Cemetery on Oct. 3 with family. There will be a celebration of life at 10 a.m. Oct, 17 at Living Faith Church, 4597 Hollister Ave., Santa Barbara.
In place of flowers, please donate to VNA Hospice.