Lawrence Matthew Brennen Jr., who went by Matthew and was affectionately known to many as “Shorty,” was born August 31, 1987, and died October 28, 2026. He was a loving father, son, brother and friend whose kindness and generosity touched the lives of so many.

He was a hardworking man with a heart of gold, someone who would give the shirt off his back to help anyone in need, whether they were family, a friend or a complete stranger.

Above all, Matthew was a loving and devoted father to his four children, Jacob, Mia, Monica and Carston. Being their dad was one of the most meaningful parts of his life, and the love he had for them will forever be part of the legacy he leaves behind.

Matthew grew up on Ninth Street in Carpinteria, where childhood friendships turned into lifelong bonds and friends became family.

Those who knew him as “Shorty” knew his loyalty, generosity and the kind of person he was. His roots ran deep in Carpinteria, where he was surrounded by a large family, lifelong friends and a community that loved him dearly.

Growing up, Matthew enjoyed playing football, fishing and spending time at the pier catching crabs. He loved working with his hands and was always building, fixing or creating something new.

His family often joked that he was the male version of Mary Poppins because somehow, no matter what anyone needed, he always seemed to have it. With his toolbox in hand, he was always ready to help.

Whether something needed fixing or someone simply needed a helping hand, Matthew was the person everyone could count on. He never expected anything in return. That was simply who he was.

As the oldest of seven siblings, Matthew was more than just our big brother; he was our
protector. He was someone we could turn to, someone who looked out for us, and someone who always wanted to make sure his family was OK.

No matter how old we got, he would always be our big brother. The love, protection and memories he gave us will remain in our hearts forever.

Matthew was a Warrior. He was strong, resilient, hardworking and determined, but his greatest strength was his heart. He gave more than he took, helped without hesitation, and showed his love through his actions.

Anyone who had the privilege of knowing him knew how special he truly was.

Losing Matthew has left a space in our family and community that can never be filled. We wish his children had more time with their dad, that we had more time with our big brother, and that everyone who loved him could have had just one more moment.

We will forever remember the boy who grew up on Ninth Street, the man everyone knew as “Shorty,” the father who loved his children, the protective big brother, and the friend who would do anything for anyone.

His hands built so much throughout his life, but the greatest thing he ever built was a lifetime of love, memories and connections that will never be forgotten.

His legacy will live on through his children, his siblings, his family, his lifelong friends and everyone whose lives he touched.

Rest peacefully, Matthew. You were deeply loved, and you will be missed more than words could ever express.

Forever our Matthew. Forever our Shorty. Forever our Warrior.

Family and friends are invited to visiting hours to be held from 4 to 9 p.m. November 27, 2026, at Joseph P. Reardon Funeral Home, 757 E. Main St., Ventura 93001.

Funeral services are at 11 a.m. November 28, 2026, at Carpinteria District Cemetery, 1501 Craven Lane in Carpinteria.

Arrangements are by Joseph P. Reardon Funeral Home & Cremation Service.