Brother and sister at home
During the summer, children often are home with a lot of free time on their hands, but there are ways that parents can ensure their kids stay safe when online. (Cox Communications photo)

Summer break is here, and for many of us, that means our kids are home with a lot of free time on their hands. Whether we like it or not, much of that free time is spent on electronic devices. We can’t monitor our children’s every move online, but Internet parental controls are an underutilized, easy way for parents to make sure their kids stay safe while they’re streaming, gaming, scrolling or chatting.

As our use of the Internet and the modes we use to access it have evolved, so have parental controls. Here are seven tips for making the most of parental controls available for every Cox Communications Internet-connected device in your home:

» Create a “white list” for kids younger than 5. Children age 5 or younger can and are navigating the Internet and tech devices very quickly and with ease nowadays. Choose a handful of sites you’re comfortable with, and make those the only ones accessible on the device your kid uses.

» Use them to control how much time your children spend online. On iPhones, especially, you have the power to set your child up on Family Sharing, and then set rules on your kids’ iPhone usage. Your Internet service provider also may have parental controls included in your subscription, which can help you restrict and monitor the time kids spend online while they are at home.

» Remember how many ways kids can access the Internet. Use resources such as Internet Matters to figure out which devices and online accounts you can set parental controls on, and go from there.

» Make controls on YouTube a priority. Use YouTube’s parental controls to set your account to “Restricted Mode,” even if you use YouTube Kids, so your kids won’t run the risk of viewing disturbing content when searching for clips of their favorite shows.

» Don’t forget their email or social media accounts. Make sure you have access to your minor child’s accounts (usernames and passwords), and regularly monitor their interactions if possible. Otherwise, consider blocking a social media site or deleting an email account if you’re truly worried.

Most importantly, know what parental controls can and can’t do. Parental controls can control how much time your kid spends online using devices you and your family own, which online games your child can access, filter browsers so your children can only access pre-approved websites, prevent children from using certain devices, limit what children can search for online and manage the types of videos that are searchable online. Parental controls cannot control who reaches out to your children on their own social media channels or what photos children view on their own social media channels if those websites are not blocked, or you do not have access to their accounts.

As many parents know, there are plenty of dangers for kids online, from seeing inappropriate content to being contacted by unsavory strangers. However, the Internet is an indispensable part of our lives, so it’s simply not practical for us to unplug or forbid our children from going online in any way. Internet parental controls can give parents the peace of mind they need while school is out and ensure kids’ time online this summer is what it should be: fun.

— Charla Batey is a communications specialist for Cox Communications and a mother of two young children who love their Cox Internet-connected devices.