Dear Inquisitive Canine,

Q: I’ve got a 1½- year-old female, spayed Lab mix that has just recently started doggy day care. They said she does great — listens, communicates and plays well with the other dogs.

However, this last time, a few days after she came home I noticed some scratches that are now scabbing on the top of her neck.

I am taking her to the vet to make sure it isn’t a skin condition, but is it possible they are from playing with the other dogs? Is it normal and OK for dogs to get scratches while play fighting with each other? Or is that evidence of “too rough play,” or even a real fight?

Dear Inquisitive Pet Parent,

A: Hi! Thanks for joining the conversation! You sound like a very dedicated, caring dog parent.

You ask, “Is it normal for dogs to get scratches while play fighting with each other?”

Without having any concrete data to prove one way or another, I would venture to say that it’s not uncommon. Dogs have sharp teeth, sharp nails and, more often than not, display a rough and tumble play style.

Scrapes and scratches can happen, as well as an occasional injury. (Similar to us humans getting banged up during sports.)

Fortunately, dog play behaviors for the most part are innate. In other words, they’re born with the skills to play appropriately.

And by nature, one of these special play traits is learning to self-interrupt. (Instead of a whistle being blown or a yellow flag thrown as in human sports.)

During play you might see dogs stop the action and do something like shake off, sniff the ground, grab a drink of water (if available), or just stand and catch their breath before offering up a play-bow and going for round two.

Again, similar to us humans, sometimes we don’t realize when we should take a break. I would say it is not uncommon for dogs to get nicks and scratches when out playing or roughhousing with other dogs.

Still, I would investigate a little more. For instance:

  • Are you seeing scratches or are they punctures?
  • Did you ask the day care staff about it? Have they sent you video or do they have webcams that allow you to watch live interactions?
  • Does your dog’s play style match up with the dogs she is partnered with?
  • Has your dog returned to the facility since coming home with scratches? If so, does she appear happy and excited about going in and playing with her friends?
  • Or does she appear reluctant and scared?

Reading the body language of your dog will help you keep an eye on the situation and provide you with information so you can determine how you want to proceed.

If possible, go to the facility and observe your dog at play, watching for appropriate consensual play behavior, including self-interruptions and “listening” to the other dog(s). And of course, talk with the staff to find out more. It’s good to be inquisitive!

Thank you for being such a responsible and caring dog parent.

Joan Hunter Mayer is a certified canine behavior consultant, certified professional dog trainer, and founder of The Inquisitive Canine. She and her team are devoted to offering humane, pawsitive, practical solutions that work for the challenges dogs and their humans face in everyday life. Joan offers training and behavior consulting services both in person and online, dedicated to strengthening the human-canine bond. If you are feeling inquisitive and have dog training questions, email advice@theinquisitivecanine.com and click here for more training tips. The opinions expressed are her own.